Speak up or bite my tongue?

[Senusret I]

[Senusret I]

^^^ That was a joke.

But seriously, I think if you didn't talk to them as it happened, and it's not your organization, you should let it go.

[SydneyK]

You're probably right.

However, if someone witnessed my chapter doing this, I'd want to know about it. I might not even do anything about it once I knew, but at least I'd feel better prepared in case other things came up.

[33girl]

If they're the struggling chapter, they are just making themselves look like a bunch of sour grapes by dissing all the other groups in public. They're busy with their own destruction without your having to tip them off to the fact that they're asshats. So just let it go.

If your friend the ABC alum was from that chapter and knew the girls, I might mention it, but since she isn't anything she says is going to go in one ear and out the other.

[UGAalum94]

does flagged tables for groups in the student union strike anyone else as seeming really middle school?

[Senusret I]

Originally Posted by AlphaGamUGAAlum

does flagged tables for groups in the student union strike anyone else as seeming really middle school?

Nah.... I've visited schools where this existed and it was more like decoration. It was in no way territorial.

[Low C Sharp]

This happened to me. I observed some extremely inappropriate public behavior from some XYZs. I don't know any alumnae personally, so I PM'd a couple of Greekchat XYZ alumnae so that they could decide whether any action was warranted. They were grateful for the heads up, and I believe they got in touch with the chapter's advisors and some changes were made.

I don't think it could hurt for you to tell your ABC alum friend what you heard (or, for that matter, to tell a Greekchat ABC alum). If she thinks the girls need some guidance, she can always get in touch with that chapter's advisors, or an ABC consultant, who will be more persuasive. At any rate, if you let someone know, then an actual member can decide what's best for ABC; right now they don't know what's going on, so they can't make that decision.
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[SWTXBelle]

I vote for telling your friend the alum - you do have a dog in this fight, because ABC's behavior reflects on ALL sororities. Your average student with no knowledge of the Greek system would only know that sorority members are back stabbing bitches - it wouldn't matter what letters they are wearing.
Let your friend know your concern, and then let her do with the information what she will.