Okay so the whole dirty rush thing I'm unsure about since I went through an informal rush. But I'm so confused... here's my situation...
My cousin & I are really close & he's coming to my University in the fall. He has a new girlfriend & I've been spending a lot of time with her. She introduced me to some of her friends who will also be coming to my school, all super cute girls. A few of them were at a family party with my cousin & I had some of my sisters visiting at the time. They asked about the school & sororities in general. Now they are really interesting in rushing in the fall.
One of my friends at a different school said that they would consider that dirty rushing since it would be suspected that we convinced these girls to go through rush.
Personally I think it's BS. Who's to say that they actually will go through with rush, or that they will choose to rush my sorority. There were no gifts given or antying & everything was just by a matter of chance. These girls are now friends, so am I supposed to cut myself off from them for giving them a biase. I don't think that's fair at all.
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