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				To me this is indicative of a deeper problem. He's basically telling he is not open to trying new things to please her.  He has told her not to expect to do something she seems to like (traveling overseas) if she marries him.  She can't complain later if her honeymoon consists of a weekend at the local Hollday Inn and that "we never go anywhere".  HE TOLD YOU UP FRONT.  Personally, if he is willing to treat the honeymoon as a weekend afterthough, how will he treat you in the marriage? 
 
 
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				tld221, what happened? 
			
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 shyte, i'll tell yall what happened...
 
so today's my aunt's birthday. they had both been saving money to take a "vacation" to the Jersey shore (okay, theyre simpletons, to them that's like Aruba) and last minute, he decides to give the money to his kids (from his marriage), saying they "needed money for clothes." 
 
well this doesn't sit too well with auntie. she says "well what are we gonna do for my birthday now?"
 
and he says, "well, umm... we can spend a romantic weekend indoors."
 
that just SCREAMS "too dayum bad we have no money and i don't care."
 
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			So how did the proposal go? Or has it happened yet? 
 
...it's July...please tell us something good in the details.  
 
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 Umm.....HOTPANTS for the reception??  And WTF is that thing on her head?  Did a dog pee on her veil and she wore it anyway???
 
Her man has a girly butt and stance.
 
(I just keep finding MORE AND MORE wrong with this)
 
Do you notice that the GUESTS are all in white????  DUBYA TEA EFF???
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				Umm.....HOTPANTS for the reception?? And WTF is that thing on her head? Did a dog pee on her veil and she wore it anyway??? 
  
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			His butt reminds me of the episode of Girlfriends when Joan was dating the man that had hips and needed a girdle. 
 
This is a H.A.M. 
 
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				His butt reminds me of the episode of Girlfriends when Joan was dating the man that had hips and needed a girdle. 
  
This is a H.A.M. 
  
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 Baby girl does not look happy.
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I should add that the only things I have issue with are her veil (fugly), the hotpants and her train (just seems too long). The color is OK.
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Ok, I know I am busting in here...but... 
 
If they are using a "color scheme" (duh obviously, dark rust and gold for wedding party and white for guests)... 
 
why is the groom wearing what looks like dark khaki green dockers?  Shouldn't he have on something like gold lame'?  (oh the vision that thought brings to mind!) 
 
And why is that one girl in gold...perhaps Maid of Honor?  She isn't a guest...because they are all in white. 
 
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				Umm.....HOTPANTS for the reception??  And WTF is that thing on her head?  Did a dog pee on her veil and she wore it anyway??? 
 
Her man has a girly butt and stance. 
 
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 ROFLMAO!!!!  He looks like he could birth a set of triplets from the size of those hips.  
 
I hate when I see brides wearing their eyeglasses in their bridal photos.  Please tell me you can get disposable contacts for your big day.  
 
I'm just mad at all of these photos.  Dayum shame.
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			That bride didn't always make the best choices (hot pants? !!!!!!! I MUST be getting more conservative as i get older beciause that is just... I just dont get that), but that wedding was not ghetto. I liked the dress and even the non-traditional gold veil wasn't THAT bad- it would have been frightful in red (Carrie 2007), so the gold was a nice choice, all things considered.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				ROFLMAO!!!! He looks like he could birth a set of triplets from the size of those hips.  
  
I hate when I see brides wearing their eyeglasses in their bridal photos. Please tell me you can get disposable contacts for your big day.  
  
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Instead of the 8 foot long train, use your vision benefits and get some contacts.
		  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				That bride didn't always make the best choices (hot pants? !!!!!!! I MUST be getting more conservative as i get older beciause that is just... I just dont get that), but that wedding was not ghetto. I liked the dress and even the non-traditional gold veil wasn't THAT bad- it would have been frightful in red (Carrie 2007), so the gold was a nice choice, all things considered. 
			
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 I don't think my actual problem with the veil was the color...I guess there was too much of it or it didn't lay right or something.  Instead of a veil, it just looked like a huge blob of SOMETHING sitting on her head.
 
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