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Originally Posted by dgdramadawg
SECdomination, you make great points here, ones that us SEC women (and women from other competitive schools) will be able to totally grasp... and maybe even some women from non-competitive schools, too, who can realize the big gap between everyone-is-PC-and-nice-to-everyone recruitment and competitive RUSH. I get the idea that a lot of posters live in Fantasy Land where this isn't the way it is and they can't seem to understand that no matter how much we don't like it and don't think it's "nice," it's not going to change (at least no time soon). Women outside of competitive recruitments like to post about how it "should" be, but they haven't experienced it from the inside so it's hard for them to see how unchangeable these attitudes are on these campuses.
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I'm sorry that some of us just soooooo out of it and dumb and can't understand...but some of us have a value system that doesn't allow us to degrade people we made promises to. As long as people continue to use your excuses it will not change. It will not change in one year, five years, maybe not even in ten years. It could take twenty, fifty, one hundred years. But it is possible to change it if someone will someday have the guts to stand up for what is right. As far as I'm concerened it's a total in-your-face disgrace to what the organizations stand for to be so shallow.