D9 stereotyping..

[IncontRHOllable]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Honestly, D9 stereotyping and disunity isn't a reality for many of us. Many of us have absolutely no static when we mingle with other BGLO members in our professional and social environments. Aside from occasional playful remarks, black folk have proven to just be black folk. Unless they are TRYING to live a stereotype and don't have a life outside of their org. And age may also have something to do with it.

I think age has a LOT to do with it. I am not really seeing this issue on the alumnae level but more on the undergraduate level. As someone said, with age comes maturity. Educating the undergrad is crucial. I have been witness to undergrad chapters of XYZ who don't support ABC because of "insert negative stereotype". Its ridiculous. I've even seen some be rude to each other. While they are fueling a rivalry, there are people in the community who could be benefitting from their joint efforts.jmho.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by IncontRHOllable

I think age has a LOT to do with it. I am not really seeing this issue on the alumnae level but more on the undergraduate level. As someone said, with age comes maturity. Educating the undergrad is crucial. I have been witness to undergrad chapters of XYZ who don't support ABC because of "insert negative stereotype". Its ridiculous. I've even seen some be rude to each other. While they are fueling a rivalry, there are people in the community who could be benefitting from their joint efforts.jmho.

Make that age in human years and Greek years. I have surprisingly seen some old ass alumnae/graduate chapter newer members who act like they have to battle other organizations. Like they missed out on the fighting that they assumed happened in undergrad and are playing catch up.

[Animate]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Then you have stereotypes that many members push themselves. Like Ques being nasty and Alphas being bright.

Well...

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

Make that age in human years and Greek years. I have surprisingly seen some old ass alumnae/graduate chapter newer members who act like they have to battle other organizations. Like they missed out on the fighting that they assumed happened in undergrad and are playing catch up.

Truly sad. Grown people wanting to live out what they think they would have done in their college life.

[Little32]

^^I know, I have a friend who recently crossed into a graduate chapter of her organization, and before she even crossed she was trying to beef with me when I had my letters and she didn't. I thought that was hilarious. Not only that, but I ran into her and some of her would-be sorors at a community service event, and they were all giving me the stank-eye (I had a shirt with my letters on). I just thought it was funny that they didn't even have their letters yet and they already had beef.

Funny thing too, she said they had learned all about "us" during their process. That made me laugh too.

[Wolfman]

It seems as though most people on this thread have taken this phenomenon in solely a negative manner. We all know the "dark side" of this, even erupting into physical violence among fraternities at times. But mostly, in my experience, it manifests itself as "friendly rivalries" which serve to help maintain a sense of group cohesion and enhance a feeling a specialness to Black Greek Life. From my perspective, historically white NIC/NPC Greek life (a majority of NPHC fraternities are NIC-member groups also) lacks that sense of enthusiasm, on the whole, because it's so homogenized. I can't count the times in everyday life I've ran into other Greeks (usually Nupes) who make comments about Omega upon seeing me in some paraphernalia. It cements a type of bond that we all share; it leads to further relationships. And it's fun! Last year I was hurrying to get through security at Hartsfield Airport in Atlanta on my way home after I had put my shoes on and collected my cell, keys wallet and my bags. The security officer at the gate then told me I couldn't go through. He then told me the reason:'You have the wrong hat on (referring to my purple Que cap)' and then he stated that he was a Kappa. We had a good laugh out of that one after we traded a couple of Greek barbs.

[Little32]

Friendly barbs are one thing, but some folks take it to a whole nother level sometimes. I have seen it already, and I am only 6 months in.

For me, it was somewhat unexpected that I would see such behavior at the graduate level.

[Wolfman]

Originally Posted by Little32

Friendly barbs are one thing, but some folks take it to a whole nother level sometimes. I have seen it already, and I am only 6 months in.

For me, it was somewhat unexpected that I would see such behavior at the graduate level.

There are some people whose identity formation is lacking and Greek affiliation fills in a hole in their self esteem. These people will typically fall into the negative aspect of this phenomenon. I've counseled people like this who want to become Ques that they are "barking up the wrong tree." They don't need Omega (or APhiA, KAPsi,Sigma,Iota or whatever); they need Jesus!

[IncontRHOllable]

Originally Posted by Little32

Friendly barbs are one thing, but some folks take it to a whole nother level sometimes. I have seen it already, and I am only 6 months in.

Exactly.

[BlueReign]

This thread was reported to me. I guess another moderator cleaned it up. DSTChaos, loving your comments. I agree this thread should not even exist.

Look now, cause in a minute, it may just be history.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

This thread was reported to me. I guess another moderator cleaned it up. DSTChaos, loving your comments. I agree this thread should not even exist.

Look now, cause in a minute, it may just be history.

"In before the lock."

[BlueReign]

Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS

"In before the lock."

Not sure if it should be locked. I thought the topic was tired cause it's been discussed, rehashed, etc., etc. But with new GCers and new movies sometimes we need an old topic with new and fresh perspectives.

[ladygreek]

Originally Posted by BlueReign

Thank you Sistergreeks.

Thank you, sistergreek!

[pinkies up]

My head hurts. I live up to the stereotype that I do community service without a break. Anybody else in that group?