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06-08-2007, 03:19 PM
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im curious @ some of the guys who like conservative women...
is that an "out in public" type of appearance you want your lady to have? i own heels and have mastered looking classy yet slightly sexy. do you want a woman that is that conservative behind closed doors & after hours?
i understand the public vs. private appearance. the public doesnt need to see all of the "sexy" side of me, its for my man in private...
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06-10-2007, 04:03 AM
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im curious @ some of the guys who like conservative women...
is that an "out in public" type of appearance you want your lady to have? i own heels and have mastered looking classy yet slightly sexy. do you want a woman that is that conservative behind closed doors & after hours?
i understand the public vs. private appearance. the public doesnt need to see all of the "sexy" side of me, its for my man in private...
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Right. It looks bad in public. That kind of stuff is for private. Plus I want my woman to leave me something to imagine. Why does she have to show everything in public?
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06-10-2007, 03:37 PM
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PB you crack me up....I don't think I could stay awake through a date with you..lol..j/k (not really though )...I've read what you're said in this and other threads and I enjoy bookstores and quiet settings also, BUT variety is indeed the spice of life..I also enjoy jazz clubs and bars...my new dude (your frat BTW) is an attorney so when we go to events that require a more conservative look I oblige...but your list is...just wow...extreme to say the least...now I'm not knocking it cuz its your perference, but wow you seem really pressed about what your parents think too (a slight sidebar)...there isn't a "100% perfect" match IMO....cuz if there were, a cross between Terrence Howard, Method Man, and Bob Johnson would be downstairs making me some coffee right now...lol...I gotta see you...my mental visual of you is FUNNY....your posts do make me laugh and SMH at the same time....
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06-10-2007, 05:55 PM
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PB you crack me up....I don't think I could stay awake through a date with you..lol..j/k (not really though )...I've read what you're said in this and other threads and I enjoy bookstores and quiet settings also, BUT variety is indeed the spice of life..I also enjoy jazz clubs and bars...my new dude (your frat BTW) is an attorney so when we go to events that require a more conservative look I oblige...but your list is...just wow...extreme to say the least...now I'm not knocking it cuz its your perference, but wow you seem really pressed about what your parents think too (a slight sidebar)...there isn't a "100% perfect" match IMO....cuz if there were, a cross between Terrence Howard, Method Man, and Bob Johnson would be downstairs making me some coffee right now...lol...I gotta see you...my mental visual of you is FUNNY....your posts do make me laugh and SMH at the same time....
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What's good Mami? Where you been these days? Missed you around these parts
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06-10-2007, 06:33 PM
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What's good Mami? Where you been these days? Missed you around these parts |
I've been around papa...I've missed you though...hope all is well....
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06-10-2007, 10:23 PM
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I've been around papa...I've missed you though...hope all is well....
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I'm good...even better since you back around the block. Don't stay away so long next time
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06-10-2007, 11:10 PM
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PB you crack me up....I don't think I could stay awake through a date with you..lol..j/k (not really though )...I've read what you're said in this and other threads and I enjoy bookstores and quiet settings also, BUT variety is indeed the spice of life..I also enjoy jazz clubs and bars...my new dude (your frat BTW) is an attorney so when we go to events that require a more conservative look I oblige...but your list is...just wow...extreme to say the least...now I'm not knocking it cuz its your perference, but wow you seem really pressed about what your parents think too (a slight sidebar)...there isn't a "100% perfect" match IMO....cuz if there were, a cross between Terrence Howard, Method Man, and Bob Johnson would be downstairs making me some coffee right now...lol...I gotta see you...my mental visual of you is FUNNY....your posts do make me laugh and SMH at the same time....
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Well, I've got a long list. I just like really down to earth real women. That's all. I'm not into the flashy women. I like wholesome girls that come from good family backgrounds. My list was different before. At one time I wouldn't even tolerate drinking alcohol at all. Now, I don't mind the beer and wine coolers, but that's it. No one is perfect but my parents approval is very important to me.
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06-10-2007, 11:19 PM
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The older I get, the more I realize that I am attracted to women who have personalities that are similar to my mother! The funny thing is that growing up, we knocked heads on a regular basis, and now we still do (whenever we are in each other's company), but she and I are SO similar it is sick.
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06-10-2007, 11:27 PM
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As long as I have a non-bar going, non- club going non- party girl who's down to earth. Then I'm good.
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06-10-2007, 11:33 PM
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The older I get, the more I realize that I am attracted to women who have personalities that are similar to my mother! The funny thing is that growing up, we knocked heads on a regular basis, and now we still do (whenever we are in each other's company), but she and I are SO similar it is sick.
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It's projection. I spent alot of time with my brother as a the male figure in my life because my father was in the Navy. Now I find myself generally attracted to guys like my brother... Which may not be such a good thing. At least I'm immune to some of their B.S. 
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06-10-2007, 11:42 PM
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The older I get, the more I realize that I am attracted to women who have personalities that are similar to my mother!
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Ugh. Everyone says I'm going to marry a man like my father. Excuse my language but HELL TO THE F#@K NO. I can't stand my father 95% of the time and made up my mind years ago to never date a man who was anything like him. I have not so far and fully intend to keep that trend going.
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I just like really down to earth real women. That's all. I'm not into the flashy women. I like wholesome girls that come from good family backgrounds.
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LOL, I'm glad you realize that "the list" changes. Speaking as a wholesome, down to earth woman who is from a "good family background," I'm not picking on you, I just see it from the other side. I think a man is entitled to any list he wants, but I also think it'd be a shame if someone I was totally compatible with walked away from me because he found out I have a tattoo. The fact that I have one is minor compared to the fact that it's tasteful and discrete. Or if a man dumped me because I had something stronger than a wine cooler. I think the fact that I can drink while still maintaining myself as a lady in public is more important than what's in the cup. I just hope that, when you meet someone you truly like, you don't let go of that good woman over something much smaller than the big picture. If you can do that, while still maintaing "the list," then have at it.
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06-10-2007, 11:52 PM
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Ugh. Everyone says I'm going to marry a man like my father. Excuse my language but HELL TO THE F#@K NO. I can't stand my father 95% of the time and made up my mind years ago to never date a man who was anything like him. I have not so far and fully intend to keep that trend going.
LOL, I'm glad you realize that "the list" changes. Speaking as a wholesome, down to earth woman who is from a "good family background," I'm not picking on you, I just see it from the other side. I think a man is entitled to any list he wants, but I also think it'd be a shame if someone I was totally compatible with walked away from me because he found out I have a tattoo. The fact that I have one is minor compared to the fact that it's tasteful and discrete. Or if a man dumped me because I had something stronger than a wine cooler. I think the fact that I can drink while still maintaining myself as a lady in public is more important than what's in the cup. I just hope that, when you meet someone you truly like, you don't let go of that good woman over something much smaller than the big picture. If you can do that, while still maintaing "the list," then have at it. |
CG, you make a great point, but at the same time there's just some things that I can't deal with no matter how nice the woman is. Hard liquor and tattoos are just two of the things that don't fit what I like. Of course she's not perfect, but neither am I, but some things I would just rather do without.
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06-10-2007, 11:53 PM
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LOL, I'm glad you realize that "the list" changes. Speaking as a wholesome, down to earth woman who is from a "good family background," I'm not picking on you, I just see it from the other side. I think a man is entitled to any list he wants, but I also think it'd be a shame if someone I was totally compatible with walked away from me because he found out I have a tattoo. The fact that I have one is minor compared to the fact that it's tasteful and discrete. Or if a man dumped me because I had something stronger than a wine cooler. I think the fact that I can drink while still maintaining myself as a lady in public is more important than what's in the cup. I just hope that, when you meet someone you truly like, you don't let go of that good woman over something much smaller than the big picture. If you can do that, while still maintaing "the list," then have at it. |
Christiangirl, you been tippin' the bottle tonight? That was some strong language coming from you...lol! I have been told by my closest friends and family that I am too picky with women. Maybe I am, but I think I deserve to be picky. Hell, Imma good catch!
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