In need of advice...

Originally Posted by Hayley2007

If you were being treated badly by the sorority you joined and ultimately did not feel comfortable becomming a part of that sorority as an initiated member, then it's YOUR choice to make the decision to no longer be a member. There are many women who accept bids to a sorority they thought was going to be the right place for them and depledge and sign up for recruitment the next year and get accepted into a sorority where they feel more at home. It depends on the situation, and, even though I do not know your full story, I do not think you did anything wrong and I would not hold that against you. However, if you did become an initiated member of a NPC sorority, then you cannot join and become an initiated member of another NPC sorority. Good luck to you!

According to the OP, she went through intake at an HBCU (Historically Black College/University)...which leads me to believe that she's not trying to get membership into an NPC, so your advice would be irrelevant to her situation.

To the OP, I get the feeling you're interesting in one of the NPHC sororities. While I am not in one, my suggestion is to be discreet. Avoid airing your laundry online because judging from what I've read by folks in similar situations, things like this aren't received well here on GreekChat...but you probably already know this judging from your first sentence.