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Just a thought... which supports some of what has already been said....
In the end, women want the men who believe that chivalry is still
alive, so don't lose hope. However, in the late teens/ early 20's there is what I call a blindness to reality. There are the male friends who seem to know how to relate and show all the compassion, understaning, etc. in the world. Of course, at this point in life, these are the guys who are least likely to be seen in any type of romantic light. The guys who walk all over us are, for some reason, the ones who end up with the dates.
While we are being walked on, we EVENTUALLY learn that the guys who were there for us and treated us like we mattered at all are the type we really want to be with. It just takes a while for that to sink into our brains.
If this girl doesn't see what a wonderful thing was done for her, she's not at that point yet. Don't give up on the way you are. Changing just to find a relationship will not work. Stay true to who you are.
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