Marrying Down?

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by Sugar08

But it's such a tough one, because being treated well in a relationship is so important, and often hard to come by... and on the other hand, being with someone who shares your goals and plans is just as important (and just as hard to come by...)

You don't have to pick one or the other. The total package isn't hard to come by.

You have to exude those traits and surround yourself with people, places, and things conducive to finding a mate with those traits.