what do i have to give back?

[KSUViolet06]

I mean think about it, how creepy/weird would it be if I went to a new friend's house and saw a bunch of Sigma stuff and was like "oh I didn't know you were an Sigma!" and she says "Oh no I depledged right after I joined, I just kept all the stuff." Umm yeah. Not cool.

If you like these girls and still want to maintain good friendships with them, I would return everything with the sorority name/letters/crest on it. I'm pretty sure they won't be happy to see you still sporting their letters and representing their sorority even though you're not a member anymore. If it becomes a hassle for them to get this stuff back from you, they probably won't want to hang out with you afterwards.