It's about choices...

[FeeFee]

Soror Busy Bee - chile, there are too many bricks on this here body, LOL!!!

@PrettyBoy - I ain't mad at ya!!

[Malaika08]

Brains - 10 -I can't deal with stupid. Who has time to chase after someone all day - "No, honey, you can't drink that! It's bleach!" "Sweetie, no, please don't stick that fork in the electric socket!"

Beauty - 1 - As long as I can look at you without vomiting, I'm good. I don't care if my kids are "ugly". I see more "ugly" kids than I do adults, leading me to believe that "ugly" children grow up to be at least average-looking.

Body - 10 - A butt in the front isn't cute.

Money - 1 - I don't need a lot of things. I'm content with the basics.

Personality - 10 - Not trying to be bored.

Utility - 1 - We'd just have to hire people.

[tld221]

Brains 10 i get aggravated when i get a sense of the lack of brains people have. that's men or women. but a dumb man is really a shame. however, if a man really had no brains, i wouldnt expect him to put a decent joke together, or be able to explain something to me, or really verbally express himself. and i cant have no dull, stuttering fool.

plus, sometimes i really like me a nerdy, brainy dude, especially if he totally knows it - then you have more fun and you dont have that weird "omg she thinks im a dork" thing in your head.

Beauty 1 i have been attracted to a WIDE range of dudes, and the ones i felt the strongest about were typically the least attractive, in a physical sense. your looks can go, but if thats all you have going for you, then what makes you better than the next dude? plus, EVERYONE knows that an average dude can walk into a room and even if he looks like he is about his ish, chicks will be lining up.

realize also that beauty and hygiene overlap, but not necessarily the same. i mean you can be gorgeous, but if your breaf stank and yo lips are cracked up, that is not beautiful at all. but, a very trimmed man can still be unattractive.

Body 1 again, been attracted to a wide range of bodies. i figure when it comes down to gettin busy, your ish is either good or bad. and the lights are out. body parts are gonna jiggle and squish and do all sorts of stuff. now if you a little bigger, then a little more squishy goin on. if it dont bother him, it dont bother me.

Money 1 im with the general consensus. if you have the brains, then i will hope my man will use them to get that money. and then use them brains some more to turn that money into wealth, so were not filing for bankruptcy years down the line. so yeah, you can show up broke, but dont plan on staying that way, or you wont be staying here!

Personality 10 i think it takes some kinda brains to have personality. so, with the same theory, if you have brains, then you will be academically and mentally diverse to have such personality. too much of anything is no good, so if a man can get some depth in his character, i am with it!

Utility (i.e. s/he can do whatever you need a mate to do for you in any area you would choose) 10 this goes hand in hand with the brains. if your brain can handle decent thought processes, you can surely put things together, explain when things go wrong, run errands, and pretty much hold the fort down. and that is a big turn on when a man can handle his and be secure in it. even if he's wrong sometimes, the fact that he didnt call me to get help or complain, rather, the fact that he took charge says a lot.

again, LOVE IT when a man can pick up a book and explain something i dont understand (maybe this is why i always fall for educators - teachers, tutors, coaches) or talk fluently on a topic - LOVE IT!

[nonchalant]

Tens
Brains: Intelligence is always important. I have to have someone who can stimulate my mind. Intelligence also brings knowledge in various areas such as utility which helps gain money.

Personality: You have to have a great personality. One's character shows what type of person they are. We have to have similar characteristics to be able to get along and be compatible.

Beauty: Let's keep it real. I have to be able to look at you.

Ones
Money: This goes along with me being independent. I don't need your money. Also with brains, money is easy to obtain.

Utility: I need to know how to do things on my own. Also, with brains, utilities can be learned.

Body: I don't need you to have a hot body; although, it would be nice. I think one having a decent body also falls in the category of brains and personality. It's smart to be healthy and fit. Also, it should be part of your personality to want the best for yourself and want to look good/nice.

[ladygreek]

Brains - 10
Personality -10
Beauty - 10 more than skin deep, but I also want to like what I see
Money - 1 with his brains and mine we will have the money
Body -1 hey mine ain't that great - LOL
Utility -1 with the money we earn because of our brains, we could buy whatever we need done. Plus with brains, he could probably figure out how to do many things.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

Brains 10. I can't stand a narrow minded woman. I can't have a conversation with an idiot. Basically, I'm a nerd and I want a nerd in my life. This is a must.


Beauty 10. I have to be physically attracted to her. That's a must.


Body 1. Body is not as important to me as long as she's not a big woman. Nothing against big women, I'm just not physically attracted to them. Nice legs and pretty feet, I'm good with that. I can't suck her toes if she has ugly feet. I do have a foot fettish :-)


Money 1. I don't really care about the money. Money makes things a lot easier but it doesn't buy happiness, plus I want to be the provider for my woman, financially, emotionally, physically and spiritually.


Personality 10. This is very important, because I love a woman with a great sense of humor, and a wonderful, positive personality. This is a must. No ghetto, foul mouth, lip smacking, nagging woman. Major turn off.

Utility 1. That's just not important to me at all. I wouldn't want my woman to get her hands dirty doing manual labor. I'll do that.

Ewww. You suck toes? How gross. I wouldn't kiss you.

Utility, Beauty, and Body are all 10s. There's nothing like watching a cute guy with a nice bod fixing something.

Brains, Personality, and Money are all 1s. Nerds are boring, and I have my own money.

[BellaSF]

[QUOTE=TonyB06;1401889]Your Dream mate has arrived

[BellaSF]

Personality- He has to keep me entertained for life.

Brains- I don't like stupid people and I certainly do NOT want dumb kids running around the house!

Beauty- He has to be able to get me going. Plus I don't want butt ugly kids running around ( money could buy plastic surgery, but the kids would still come out butt ugly)!

*The rest are ranked 1s.

[Wonderful1908]

Brains-1 Man this was the sacrifice between personality and brains, but being smarter than your mate isn't really that bad, and since he has money and a personality we can roll.

Beauty-10 Hello I have to have kids with this person!

Body-1 Please, oh the least!

Money-10 I am 100% positive that this would be a most as I have said before I am a much happier and functional person with money, I use to think it was shallow and unbecoming but I know that thats just me.

Personality-10 We have to laugh together and share jokes, and inside things, and be able to talk, this is so important.

Utility-1 We will pay someone to do these things....

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek

Ewww. You suck toes? How gross. I wouldn't kiss you.

Utility, Beauty, and Body are all 10s. There's nothing like watching a cute guy with a nice bod fixing something.

Brains, Personality, and Money are all 1s. Nerds are boring, and I have my own money.

If you met me you would want to.

[litAKAtor]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

If you met me you would want to.

WOW! No words . . . . .Unless the man is Jesus himself . . . I am NOT into feet or kissing anyone who has knowingly sucked on anyone else's feet.

[NiaX]

^ ok that is hilarious.... really.... Jesus?

[Dionysus]

Hmmm....Christophilia?

[Honeykiss1974]

Personality / Brains / Utility-10
These are a must! I love a god fearing man with a sense of humor and an intellect. Someone that can talk about things from the effects of Haliburton's HQ move to the Dubai province to why he believes Tupac is alive lol. A versatile intellect is SEXY! I also like "manly men" - a guy that is good with his hands as well so utility is important to me too.

Money / Body / Beauty - 1
I put money here because I'm not looking to marry a millionaire (although no complaints if he was one LOL). I'm happy with a man that has a satisfying career topped with ambition and goals. In terms of beauty/body, I'm attracted to all types. Plus, a guys personality plays a BIG part into any attraction or chemistry that will exist. A man can be fine, but if he opens his mouth and it sounds like he is stuck on stupid - any attraction is GONE!

[mulattogyrl]

Originally Posted by Dionysus

Hmmm....Christophilia?

LMAAAO!!! Dionysus, you are insane.