Pink, sorry if you thought I was arguing with you, I was actually refuting the views of the poster I quoted. Honestly, all I got from your first post was 1) you didn't like your roommate and she was in the sorority 2) they were new and small and didn't know how to rush. The only "reputation" I thought you were referring to was that they were small and therefore lame-os because of their smallness. Personally, I and many other posters consider these very bad reasons not to give a group a second look. If they're a bunch of mean nasty sluts that sniff coke off the nearest flat surface and a goodly number of them have been bitchy to you, that's a different matter.
I know you want to be discreet and that's great, but sometimes it can prevent you from being clear.

That's OK, it's all good in the hood.