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Originally Posted by lilsunshine214
What I don't get is when a member disaffiliates and still leaves Facebook/MySpace messages like, "Miss you, Big!" like they're studying abroad or something. You quit, she's not your Big anymore. You guys are still friends, that's great. Once again, she's NOT your Big anymore. That was one of the priveledges you gave up when you signed on the dotted line and gave up all of your stuff.
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I have to disagree.
I had a sister-daughter who depledged. Years later, she still calls me mom because even though she no longer wanted to be a part of the sorority, I still took her under my wing and continued that friendship. She chose to quit for her own reasons, but there's no reason for me to tell her "you CANNOT call me mom anymore because you chose to quit."
If the disaffiliated member still calls em "Big"...just let em. They are friends, after all. It might be the best and only thing she'll take away from her sorority experience.
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