Cheating Men

[PrettyBoy]

Originally Posted by btb87

I firmly believe that without a doubt, you will know. God delights in giving us what we ask for, so I don't think if you ask him for a physically and spiritually beautiful, God-fearing woman (if that's what you want) that he's gonna send you a 8'3" cyclops. Also, it's not always about what the person looks like on the outside - what is this person's character?

I won't get into all of that, but like I said a few seconds ago, you'll know. Just know that everything that comes your way is NOT of God.

My relationships have never worked out, that's why I'm skeptical about getting involved in another one. It must be me, because I can't figure out why they don't work.

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

My relationships have never worked out, that's why I'm skeptical about getting involved in another one. It must be me, because I can't figure out why they don't work.

Maybe you're picking the wrong girls. So it is you, if you are.

[Professor]

Its hard being a pimp - lol - Because there is such a shortage of available black men, women are always after men regardless of the fact that the man may be in a relationship. To that end, it can be challenging for many men to remain in committed relationships.

Originally Posted by PrettyBoy

My relationships have never worked out, that's why I'm skeptical about getting involved in another one. It must be me, because I can't figure out why they don't work.

[TonyB06]

Originally Posted by Professor

Its hard being a pimp - lol - Because there is such a shortage of available black men, women are always after men regardless of the fact that the man may be in a relationship. To that end, it can be challenging for many men to remain in committed relationships.

Bruh, you're joking with this, right?....

[Professor]

the pimp part, of course i'm joking - but not about women chasing men in relationships.

Originally Posted by TonyB06

Bruh, you're joking with this, right?....

[TonyB06]

Originally Posted by Professor

the pimp part, of course i'm joking - but not about women chasing men in relationships.

No I meant the "challenging for men to remain in committed relationships" because there are always availalble women part?

for me, the key is what type of "man" we really want to be, and how quickly and surely we come to understand what we want. Sure, we all play the "get all you can get while you can get it" game. Women play it too. Emotional maturity shows a man -- or it should, anyway -- that life, and relationships are about depth, intensity, the recognition that a relationship that is good and fulfilling is well worth the "allure" of what's still out there, what we've been chasing all our lives up until the point of our maturity.

I just do not think my ability to be "committed" is affected by who else is after me. If I make the decision to make it "good in my house," then it doesn't matter who is down the street waiting for an opportunity.