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01-06-2007, 04:09 AM
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I read some of your older post, is this the same girl you met on GC? Just curious.
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You must have read a different person's post, or you read mine wrong. I never met her on GC. I met her face to face and she told me about GC in conversation nosey.
Same person.
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01-06-2007, 05:15 AM
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You must have read a different person's post, or you read mine wrong. I never met her on GC. I met her face to face and she told me about GC in conversation nosey.
Same person.
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Oops! Sorry  . I thought you met her on GC. I take it she's a GC member. If you don't mind me asking, what's her screen name?
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01-06-2007, 05:47 AM
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I dunno. I guess for me, it would be hard to tell. I would just let things happen as we went along.
The last relationship I was in, was with a guy I met my freshman year, but after I joined my sorority, I broke up with him b/c he thought the sorority changed me. Well to make a long story short everything went down hill from there.
I felt if he couldn't support me then I thought that maybe we should spend some time apart. I thought he was the guy for me, but I guess he wasn't.  We dated for 3 months before it got serious.
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01-07-2007, 12:30 AM
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Oops! Sorry . I thought you met her on GC. I take it she's a GC member. If you don't mind me asking, what's her screen name? |
Yes, she's a GC member. You're bold! Why do you want to know her screen name anyway?
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01-08-2007, 02:14 AM
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Yes, she's a GC member. You're bold! Why do you want to know her screen name anyway?
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You don't have to press the issue. I just asked. No biggie.
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01-08-2007, 04:10 AM
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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
You don't have to press the issue. I just asked. No biggie.
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You're right, you did ask me, so it sounds like you're the one pressing the issue not me. No biggie. 
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02-24-2007, 01:46 AM
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My bf and I just became *official* a few weeks ago after going on dates for about a month. I take things fairly slowly. It usually takes me a good month or so of dating someone and hanging out with someone to decide whether I want to get serious with them.
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02-24-2007, 03:31 AM
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My parents married after 2 weeks. I think they're somewhere around 40 years at this point.
My current wife and I were together 6 years before getting married. There's no standard. When it's time, it's time.
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02-24-2007, 09:55 AM
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Hmmm, getting serious/becoming official/dating exclusively after a month seems reasonable according to everyone here.
So I did NOT overreact when the guy I dated 3 years ago made a big fuss about "never saying we were exclusive" and "I'm not looking for a serious girlfriend because I do not have a full time job" when after a month of dating, I was not happy that he wanted to keep dating other girls.
While I never assumed we were exclusive, I truly was hoping that I was the only girl he was dating and had interest in . And I wanted to ask him at the end of that 4th date that happened a month after we started dating. If he said that he needed some time, I would have been okay with it. But the way he reacted, I was not happy. I gave him the benefit of the doubt due to the reason he gave. There was a 5th date- but in it we clinched that we were not for each other.
The guy I dated late last year did reveal feelings on the 3rd date which happened a month after we started dating. Hence I do not consider this to be "too much interest too soon". But I certainly was not feeling anything for him other than platonic fondness and appreciation.
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01-06-2007, 08:20 AM
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Originally Posted by PrettyBoy
nosey.
Same person.
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LOL. 
You keeping doing your thing and being completely honest with her so she can never say she didn't know. I'm curious as to whether you're afraid to commit to her in terms of a lifetime commitment or in terms of a relationship title. Your post didn't specify whether she was officially even your lady yet. 
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01-07-2007, 01:08 AM
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Originally Posted by DSTCHAOS
LOL.
You keeping doing your thing and being completely honest with her so she can never say she didn't know. I'm curious as to whether you're afraid to commit to her in terms of a lifetime commitment or in terms of a relationship title. Your post didn't specify whether she was officially even your lady yet. |
When I get seriously involved, yes I'm very honest from the start, sometimes too honest, and I'm always committed to just one woman only. Unfortunately I haven't had any luck in my past relationships. People continue to tell me that I keep picking the wrong women. I'm really conservative, and the women I've picked in the past weren't, so I guess I really don't trust myself as far as picking the right one.
This one is very nice, funny, physically attractive, and our personalities are similar, but she's quite different from what I'm used to gettting involved with. Yeah, I guess you can say that I am a little reserved about a long term relationship, though I would like one with her, but if it didn't work out, I would be pretty disappointed.
No, she's not my lady yet. We're still friends.
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