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Originally Posted by bichonl
When I was in graduate school, I had two short term relationships that lacked a certain "spark". With the first guy, I had NO physical attraction; we remained friends and that didn't even work. The second guy and I were so different that I practically drove myself nuts trying to make it work. I couldn't even be friends with the second guy because he was just so wrong for me.
Very rarely is it easy to remain friends with someone you dated... even if "dated" means going on a handful of dates.
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I have also found this to be the case. I either date him or I'm friends with him. If there's no chemistry/attraction on a date, it's way too awkward for me to try to turn that into a friendship, and I don't like to confuse the two.
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