Dual Memberships

[AEPhiSierra]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Buttonz,
Here's another take on this. Calling the orgs HQ might get the whole chapter in trouble. It is quite possible that the members knew of her previous affilitation and decided to ignore it.

Being from Buttonz's campus I would guess they did not know. The NPHC chapters don't interact much with the Inter-Greek Council. Some groups are technically members and may have a table at Greek Rush but I get the impression most NPHC members on our campus are initiated through borough-wide or citywide chapters. Most of the IGC members don't know the NPHC members and vice versa.

[ShamikaT]

Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

[GDIfly]

Originally Posted by ShamikaT

Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

I call nonsense post on you.

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally Posted by ladygreek

Or just tell us what colors they were wearing.

Good point. Or how many fingers she was holding up in her pictures.

Originally Posted by ShamikaT

Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

ShamikaT, so creative with your comparisons. Yet. . .

[Drolefille]

To clarify, if she's truly turned her back on SDT, I'd be pissed. (And it's way different if her new GLO prohibits it and she just neglected to mention her membership) Reporting it to SDT HQ my do no good. But, mentioning it to the NPHC group is another matter.

But, are you pissed enough to try to make her unhappy?

[CrimsonTide4]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

To clarify, if she's truly turned her back on SDT, I'd be pissed. (And it's way different if her new GLO prohibits it and she just neglected to mention her membership) Reporting it to SDT HQ my do no good. But, mentioning it to the NPHC group is another matter.

But, are you pissed enough to try to make her unhappy?

I just want to know what org. Now if she wants to tell us her name and city and school and e-mail address, I'm cool with that as well.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by CrimsonTide4

I just want to know what org. Now if she wants to tell us her name and city and school and e-mail address, I'm cool with that as well.

lol it is really buttonz call on that one. While this would piss me off (and yeah I changed my statements from earlier) I don't know that I'd spill the beans so to speak since her org doesn't have any rules against it... and it'll only make her unhappy.

[Buttonz]

Originally Posted by Drolefille

To clarify, if she's truly turned her back on SDT, I'd be pissed. (And it's way different if her new GLO prohibits it and she just neglected to mention her membership) Reporting it to SDT HQ my do no good. But, mentioning it to the NPHC group is another matter.

But, are you pissed enough to try to make her unhappy?

Yes, I am pissed off enough to make her unhappy. If it was a service org, I would feel differently, but it's not. And she did it....a most, a month, two after our chapter was closed? That shows a total lack of respect for everything SDT, IMO.

I will not be letting everyone know which NPHC she joined, as I don't feel that it is something that everyone needs to know.

[Drolefille]

Originally Posted by Buttonz

Yes, I am pissed off enough to make her unhappy. If it was a service org, I would feel differently, but it's not. And she did it....a most, a month, two after our chapter was closed? That shows a total lack of respect for everything SDT, IMO.

I will not be letting everyone know which NPHC she joined, as I don't feel that it is something that everyone needs to know.

Then I think you should inform the proper people in the NPHC group.

[DSTCHAOS]

Originally Posted by ShamikaT

Yall need to stop frontin'. Yall don't get mad when a black woman marries a white man, divorces him, and then marries a black man. In fact, some would be happy that a sista came to her senses! Same thang with this.

LOL!!

People can notice the error of their ways but that doesn't mean they are granted a second chance.