Defense of Alumni Initiation Sub Forum - Page 11

KunjaPrincess · #**151** 10-23-2006, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Jill1228

crickets are lovely...

Have I told you lately that I love you

KunjaPrincess · #**152** 10-23-2006, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by blueangel

So I guess this means that the "older AIs" are fine then with AI being discussed?

Discussing was fine until people started blowing smoke up peoples asses and downplaying the experience to those of us who went about it the right way. Oh yeah I forgot you needed clarification about what the right way was! DISCRETELY!!! If you don't know what discretion means then you are likely burning bridges.

Have you ever heard of actions speaking louder than words? Maybe you should ponder that. Giving people hope that AI is easy and the answer to many of the PNAI's on this board is so not true. I don't care how many people on here are AI's, the fact is it is not a common occurance and to imply that it is is not fair to the PNAM's or the initiated members who are the ones dealing with the slack when they have to field the questions.

PMing more than one person asking for help is going about it the wrong way. Many people on here talk outside of the forums and it isn't to hard to figure out that Suzy PNAM PMd me, Smrtblnde, JILL1228, OTW and KDDani (pulling names out of my hat, not saying it really occured) asking for help. Especially since a lot of the time the PNAM's don't even do their research and figure out who is friendly with each other.

Now as to why the hostility? Simple. You give AI's a bad name. Every single thread on here you start acting like this big martyr, picking fights, instigating and generally acting like a prize female dog. I didn't have a problem with you until I realized that you were right in the thick of every single "discussion" on AI and are usually the one causing many of the problems. You are making a nice friendly big group of panhellanic sisters get hostile with each other and are generally giving greek life a bad name. If I was not initiated already and foudn this site I would see you causing so much trouble and think I was back in high school so why would I want to research any further.

KunjaPrincess · #**153** 10-23-2006, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by OTW

KunjaPrincess, I think this post should serve as template post for the many AIs who share in your opinion.

I agree with everything you just said, but it's a shame that my opinion doesn't count because I'm a collegiate initiate.

If your post does get reported, it's a shame because it doesn't merit a report to the AI sub-forum mods and I hope they take note of that.

ahh, how cute. I got quoted in a Sig. Have I made it to the big leagues now

Jill1228 · #**154** 10-23-2006, 08:59 PM

back at cha, my Triad sister

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Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

Have I told you lately that I love you

Jill1228 · #**155** 10-23-2006, 09:04 PM

You are SO my hero!

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Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

Discussing was fine until people started blowing smoke up peoples asses and downplaying the experience to those of us who went about it the right way. Oh yeah I forgot you needed clarification about what the right way was! DISCRETELY!!! If you don't know what discretion means then you are likely burning bridges.

Have you ever heard of actions speaking louder than words? Maybe you should ponder that. Giving people hope that AI is easy and the answer to many of the PNAI's on this board is so not true. I don't care how many people on here are AI's, the fact is it is not a common occurance and to imply that it is is not fair to the PNAM's or the initiated members who are the ones dealing with the slack when they have to field the questions.

PMing more than one person asking for help is going about it the wrong way. Many people on here talk outside of the forums and it isn't to hard to figure out that Suzy PNAM PMd me, Smrtblnde, JILL1228, OTW and KDDani (pulling names out of my hat, not saying it really occured) asking for help. Especially since a lot of the time the PNAM's don't even do their research and figure out who is friendly with each other.

Now as to why the hostility? Simple. You give AI's a bad name. Every single thread on here you start acting like this big martyr, picking fights, instigating and generally acting like a prize female dog. I didn't have a problem with you until I realized that you were right in the thick of every single "discussion" on AI and are usually the one causing many of the problems. You are making a nice friendly big group of panhellanic sisters get hostile with each other and are generally giving greek life a bad name. If I was not initiated already and foudn this site I would see you causing so much trouble and think I was back in high school so why would I want to research any further.

tinydancer · #**156** 10-23-2006, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Jill1228

You are SO my hero!

I agree! My sister is awesome!

KunjaPrincess · #**157** 10-23-2006, 09:10 PM

I'm on a roll today. Guess someone is driving me BATTY (and for once it's not the kids

)

AlexMack · #**158** 10-23-2006, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

Discussing was fine until people started blowing smoke up peoples asses and downplaying the experience to those of us who went about it the right way. Oh yeah I forgot you needed clarification about what the right way was! DISCRETELY!!! If you don't know what discretion means then you are likely burning bridges.

Have you ever heard of actions speaking louder than words? Maybe you should ponder that. Giving people hope that AI is easy and the answer to many of the PNAI's on this board is so not true. I don't care how many people on here are AI's, the fact is it is not a common occurance and to imply that it is is not fair to the PNAM's or the initiated members who are the ones dealing with the slack when they have to field the questions.

PMing more than one person asking for help is going about it the wrong way. Many people on here talk outside of the forums and it isn't to hard to figure out that Suzy PNAM PMd me, Smrtblnde, JILL1228, OTW and KDDani (pulling names out of my hat, not saying it really occured) asking for help. Especially since a lot of the time the PNAM's don't even do their research and figure out who is friendly with each other.

Now as to why the hostility? Simple. You give AI's a bad name. Every single thread on here you start acting like this big martyr, picking fights, instigating and generally acting like a prize female dog. I didn't have a problem with you until I realized that you were right in the thick of every single "discussion" on AI and are usually the one causing many of the problems. You are making a nice friendly big group of panhellanic sisters get hostile with each other and are generally giving greek life a bad name. If I was not initiated already and foudn this site I would see you causing so much trouble and think I was back in high school so why would I want to research any further.

What's this, a personal attack? Pre-emptive reporting!
ps. I love you.

cutie_cat_4ever · #**159** 10-23-2006, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

Now as to why the hostility? Simple. You give AI's a bad name. Every single thread on here you start acting like this big martyr, picking fights, instigating and generally acting like a prize female dog. I didn't have a problem with you until I realized that you were right in the thick of every single "discussion" on AI and are usually the one causing many of the problems. You are making a nice friendly big group of panhellanic sisters get hostile with each other and are generally giving greek life a bad name. If I was not initiated already and foudn this site I would see you causing so much trouble and think I was back in high school so why would I want to research any further.

I whole heartly agree. As to who is giving AIs a bad name, let's just say my EYES are too clogged at the moment...

Rule of Thumb: To stop a train wreck, you have to stop fueling it...then it'll eventually stop.

texas*princess · #**160** 10-23-2006, 10:06 PM

the ignore function doesn't work that well when the people you're trying to ignore is being quoted 5478321 times

tunatartare · #**161** 10-23-2006, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by texas*princess

the ignore function doesn't work that well when the people you're trying to ignore is being quoted 5478321 times

It saves me from having to give in to curiousity and click that little "view post" button.

GeekyPenguin · #**162** 10-23-2006, 10:46 PM

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Originally Posted by KunjaPrincess

I'll step up.

I DON'T WANT TO DISCUSS AI ON GREEKCHAT BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE YOU HAVE TAKEN A GREAT THING AND TURNED IT INTO A TRAIN WRECK.

Over the last year or so since I was initiated there have been way too many people coming on here going about things the wrong way, not taking no for an answer and then getting encouraged by people saying "don't worry, try someone else." Hmmm, maybe sorority life isn't for everyone.

It's a pity too since all the "older" AI's on here busted their butts to get where they were and have done a lot for their organizations, the new ones I don't see what they are doing for their groups to better them.

Now when you report me, spell the name right please!!!

I love my sisters.

Sistermadly · #**163** 10-24-2006, 02:00 AM

People can have a change of heart. For instance, let's look at the American public - a few years ago, a majority approved of President Bush's policy toward Iraq and the middle east, and now 70% of Americans believe he's leading the country in the wrong direction.

Or, let's make this a little more local. I used to think blueangel was kind of cool. Now I think she's a pathetic wretch who has no life and needs to STFU.

Oops, I just violated the TOS!

ms_gwyn · #**164** 10-24-2006, 02:27 AM

this is why my post in the other thread was deleted....HA!

PenguinTrax · #**165** 10-24-2006, 09:14 AM

Heya --

Please don't hotlink images in the Recruitment forum(s).

Many thanks.