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Originally posted by ilovemyglo
Okay,
So I have a friend that is sleeping with a guy from her work. He just HAPPENS to be married. Now she makes the typical comments "I got me some last night, blah blah blah" but honestly I want to smack her. HE IS MARRIED! She says he tells her how they are only together for the kids, they don't like each other and they haven't had sex in forever (even though they have three kids together). And apparently he's had tons of affairs before. THat doesn't make it okay, I am sorry. So in the end I don't know how to handle it because I want to tell her what a skanky bitch she is for doing this- she only knows HIS side- she has no clue what the truth is and let's face it he is going to tell her whatever to get sex from her.
How does one handle this situation?
Also, she always talks about sexy he is- uhm, no dear he is fugly.
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She already created a channel for communication with you.
If you were screwing up wouldn't you want someone to tell you?
So tell her but don't push it. Just tell her. If she doesn't listen tell her you don't want to hear it anymore.
We grow and become better through things like that. Otherwise without our friends and family offering help and advice, we might end up losers, alcoholics, and be on meds forever.
Good luck.
-Rudey
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