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Okay....so you have to decide:
1) Whether to stay in a sorority that is "bottom tier" and you think will give you no social outlets (aside from the women in the chapter that you apparently like). You will graduate in a few years and still be a member of this organization and enjoy all the perks of alumnae membership. But it may take work to get to know everyone, and yeah, you may be in a sorority with a "loser" rep (but lets not forget that the "top tier" sorority is also going to have a rep...and it may not be flattering either).
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2) Depledge and look for other campus activities to do that may be great, but that may not give you the experience of getting to know 100+ women and likely won't give you the after-graduation experience.
So what's more important to you? A social life with women you like, but that may be looked down upon by a handful of other people (or not...sometimes you find the smaller sisterhoods have less drama and issues and it's a relief) or you have a social life on your own without the organization of a sorority and the future experiences it may hold. Forget about re-rushing and going elsewhere...sounds like it's a very slim possibility. Especially b/c you said your Greek system is small.
I urge you to decide this before initiation, because if you stay when you're not sure, everyone here is right - you will drag your chapter down, and that does them a huge disservice.
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