What's the deal??

[blueangel]

I find it disappointing to read some of the very sarcastic and, quite frankly, mean spirited barbs made on this thread.

Does this mean that it really IS true what independents accuse the Greek community of? That all of us must think and talk alike or face being ostracized? That no one can be respected for having a different opinion or for being an individual? That the "group mentality" of the Greek system forces people to acquiesce?

And... are you living your ritual when you deal with others?

Isn't it also unfair to the original poster to have her problem degrade into a silly-fest? She seems to be very troubled about her situation (and rightly so) and thought enough to ask her fellow Greeks for some advice. Don't we owe it to her to try to help in a respectful manner?