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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
That's me. It's been 10 years with him, or 11, I duno it's been so long. I can't wait to get to the point where I can ask "What the hell was I thinking?" I mean I have now, but not truly. There's still something there for him. Argh frustrating.
Dee--- I haven't read that much into the book yet but I wish I woulda read that part. Sounds like I'm sooo the shirt.
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I guess I am lucky. I have seen women do what you are doing so I learned from their experiences. When a guy treated me like crap, I picked myself up and walked out on him and whatever undefined 'relationship' we had. I had seen women do the on-again off-again thing, and I knew that I could not do it because it would hurt me far too much.
That doesn't mean that my mind didn't wonder why things hadn't worked out, but I knew that staying would devastate me. It wasn't easy, but I knew for my own happiness and emotional health, I had to end it completely and permanently.
Good luck.
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