gossip

[Sunny]

AHHHHHH. Saturday night, at a party, I was talking to this guy in XYZ, who I used to like. At some point he makes some comment about how I'm a "ABC groupie." I do spend a lot of time with the guys in both houses, because they include my closest guy friends. Except the two houses don't get along at all, so I don't talk about it very often. Anyways, so I make a comment about how I spend more time with his guys, but he was on a roll. He then launches into this whole spiel about how I'm notorious as the "ABC tease." Apparently, because I'm friendly, and fun, and like hanging out with them, I should be dating them too. According to this guy "they all think they're going to get in your pants, but you never put out. You're the biggest tease in the school." Hearing this pissed me off SO much. Yeah, I flirt. I'm outgoing and like joking around, and tend to hang out with guys...and that constitutes flirting. So if I'm friendly, and don't hook up with the guys, I'm a tease. And if I DID hook up with the guys, I'd be a whore. Has anyone else noticed that sometimes YOU JUST CAN'T WIN?? I’m kinda hurt, because I’m friends with every guy in ABC, and to find out they talk about me like this is kind harsh. And it annoying, because I try to be so careful, and not earn a bad reputation. I guess I'd rather be known as a tease that a whore...but at the same time, when a guy who you likes tells you he never pursued you because everyone said you were just a tease....AAAHHHHHHH. Has anyone else had a problem like this, or have any advice?

Sorry about the length, I needed to VENT!!