Will I be an Old maid?

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I found some of the answers to my questions. Thanks though for the help!!

BUT, back to my point. I was super amped to rush in the fall, but I had a major surgery so ended up missing some events, I called the recruiment people, and greek life office and mentioned I'd probably not make it, but I got invites anyway. I talked to the recruiment people of each house and they said they'd still vote on me as if I'd been there. I was a little worried, and just as I'd thought, I didn't end up with bids,... I checked out COB events, but I was already biased and the houses just weren't for me... It was so important for it to feel like home to me, and I got that feeling from only one house, so I was just really super partial to it. So our formal Spring rush is coming up, and I don't want to do it for personal reasons, I'm doing a internship, and taking 19 credits. So, that leaves Fall 05. Also, my junior year. So, I'm just nervous, like should I just give up the aspiration, or just go to those houses again? Is it really that looked down apon to join so late?... Also, different houses on my campus have different GPA requirements, and right now I had to withdraw from a class late and ended up with an F. So my GPA went down. Only 2 houses can even take me with that GPA, and the ones I loved its about .4 points too low , so thats another reason I'm considering waiting... is that a good idea? I found some of the answers to my questions through out other threads! Thanks though for the help!