Alrighty, my take on the situation:
1. We want to be interested. Do something to capture our interests, physically, emotionally, and/or mentally.
2. We want to think we're interesting. I'm not saying we want a fawning fan club, but some kind of validation on those physical/emotional/mental planes is great.
3. We want to have fun. Even the serious relationship guy wants to cut back and goof around sometimes.
4. Some of us don't want to talk. It's not that we don't care about you, it's simply that some men don't feel talk is essential to establishing intimacy. I read in a relationship book ("You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen, an excellent read), that men and women are looking to create their childhood best friends in their relationships. Women want a person they can tell everything to, men want a person they can do everything with.
Enjoy
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No funny squiggles, just bold letters: TKE
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