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I think you need a huge break. The biggest question I have is: "what is your mental state through all of this?". It can't be healthy for you, coming out of what you said was a hard time, and then dealing with all their drama.
Which sounds very cold to say. But you do not want to go back down that road. You want to continue to stay happy and healthy minded. Which in way sucks for your friends, b/c in their minds they will see it as "i helped her through her difficult time, why isn't she there for me?". But thats really not it at all. You basically just don't want to keep falling into a spiral of everyone's problems, until suddenly - they are now your problems.
If your friends have that much drama going on, I say skip out for a while. See how much your attitude changes towards the good and then somehow say "girls, i gotta spilt from this".
This past year I was going through a rough time and some of my sisters pulled me through. But after that, they pulled me right into their drama. I had to take a serious break and walk away from some great girls that I know would be there for me again if I asked. But the constant tears, fighting, "omg why isn't my life like her's?" broke me down into that sad pattern again.
I mostly rambled.....did that make any sense?
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