"Hoods" vs. Real Women

[AKA2D '91]

Most black men find it easier to settle for a hood rat because...
.....he doesn't have to work to improve himself.
.....he already feels like he's better than she is, so she should be grateful to have him.
.....he doesn't have to compromise his position, she will simply do whatever he wants or be replaced, hood rats are easy to come by.
.....he doesn't have to worry about his sexual satisfaction, she knows exactly how to please him she has had plenty of instructors.
.....he doesn't have to be concerned with whether his friends and family will like her or if they'll be nice to her because they know that she's just temporary or he just won't take her around.

When he comes into contact with a real woman, he panics because...
.....he worries that she is "too good to be true".
.....she has to be hiding something.
.....he worries that she has too much what does she need him for? she did all of this by herself.
.....he worries that he will have to change his lifestyle.
.....quality time will replace booty calls.
.....hangin' with the fellas will become a scheduled event.
.....he worries that he has to prove himself worthy of her.
.....he has to get himself together first and come correct.
.....he has to become the best because that's what she expects.

While the hood rats are out kickin' it, foot loose and fancy free...
Real women are sitting at home wondering when their next date will be.

While the hood rats are at the grocery store with their food stamp card...
Real women are in college, into their careers, or on their jobs working hard.

While the hood rats are figuring out how many men they can play at the same time...
Real women are hoping for just one who won't try to play with her mind

I wish I could get black men to know...
.....You can't make a housewife out of a ho'.
.....You can't turn fiction into fact.
.....a hood rat will always be just that.

I truly wish I could help black men to realize...
.....That having a real woman is worth the compromise.
.....A good woman is an achievement; a treasure untold.
.....An asset to your efforts; gratification for your soul.

Don't waste all of your time kickin' it with hood rats...
....Because someday all the real women will be gone.
.....And you'll wake up one day faced with two options:
.....Life with a rat or life all alone.


Men and Women of GC, what are your thoughts on this? I borrowed this from another group