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Originally posted by DELTABRAT
I also think it represents the "true" essence of what these women are when you take away their "diva" status.
I say that because my cousing, after receiving BOTH an MD and a PHD, proceeded to date and marry a straight GANGSTA. She is from Compton, like myself and basically said that she found other physicians, doctors, pocket protector types to be boring.
Now this former G is a very successful entrepreneur. I also think it has to do with lifestyle. I also think it has to do with "we don't know what these brothas are like behind closed doors. there may be just as much thug in the women as there is business mindedness in the men. Opposites attract but typically, there is probably more in common within their personalities that not. Dr. Dre's wife is totally opposite of what I think people would think she would be. She is very well spoken, dresses nice, and is a classy sistah, pretty much. That doesn't mean she doesn't get freaky in the bedroom, you know what I mean?
The public persona is not TRULY who most of these men are.
We also have to convey that to our children. What you see on videos, etc., is not who these folks are in their everyday lives. It's all just public persona and image.
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I could have sworn Dr. Dre's wife was a non-AA. Correct me if I am wrong.
Also look at Snoop's wife. She comes off very intelligent and what not.
I also believe the attraction is the whole "bad boy" image.
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