Nice Girls vs. Thugs

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Is it just me or do a lot of Classy African American Women love to date thugs….. I just don’t understand it.
I was Dumbfounded when I heard about Bobby and Whitney…..But then again, I later found out, she really isn’t an angel herself……But to see Beyonce’ with Jay Z,,,,,,Brandy with Tyrees (sp?)…….and I almost dropped my dinner plate when I say my homegirl Vivica Fox with 50cents……I was like WHOA!!!!!!!!! I even read where Kelly from Destiny's Child saying that she wants a Hard THUG!!!!!
Man I don’t know why but I just feel that it’s sending a message to are young black men that in order for you to get women, you have to be a thug, gangsta, shot at 9 times, etc……. Maybe I am just over reacting, but what are your thoughts? It just saddens me that I feel like we don’t have any TRUE role models out there for our men…..And I don’t know what I am going to do when I start having children.