The truth
Story:
My 'friend' has been offered scholarships to several schools to do his grad work. Of the schools on the list, he likes UI-Chicago, U of Maryland, and NYU. So, I've been researching transfering since the rumor.
*rumor* I heard that I'm probably going to get a ring this summer and he's going to ask me to leave with him.
Dilemna
So, I did some tracking around and he talked to members in his fraternity who are at campuses that if I choose to move. . .I would go to. I don't know if I would fit in with these girls. From description, they're the stereotypical girls. Super skinny, blondes and brunettes, and possible 'sweethearts in bits of ice'.
I know that I'm the stereotypical sorority girl. I don't fit well in my chapter because I'm a bit of a Clothes Nazi(I critique people's outfits all of the time). Sometimes, I can be a snob to my chapter but they've learned to overlook my shallowness. However, I know how to kick back, relax, and party. I want to stay active in sorority because I love Phi Sig and everything it represents to death. I don't know if I would mesh with these girls. Like I could end up being the one that everyone talks about behind their back or despises because of something.
Anyway, I was excited about the move but I'm chickening out. And I don't know. Should I go with my gut instinct and go anyway? Should I stay here?
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