lluvmook98: I think you may have been reading too much Iyanla or some other specious new age philosophy. It is true that in todays environment, males and females bring a lot of emotional and pre-relationship baggage to the table. In that construct, indeed, the individuals need to know that they are whole and complete before they can consummate something larger. My sense of completeness is that a man's life is incomplete or rather not as complete without his mate. It does not mean that he/she is not well-rounded or not together. But man and woman were made for each other and complement each other. We are basically splitting hairs, but there is no greater or better creature ever created by the hand of God than the Black Woman.
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