Lady AKA and Jazbri: a man learns to treat a woman by how he sees the women that he loves being treated. A boy that grows up in an environment that devalues or mistreats women, will surely do the same. If he hears and sees his mother, sister, aunts being called a ho or bitch without begging to differ will continue the pattern. A boy must see a woman being treated like a queen by a man that he respects. If he views them as they are treated in popular culture or as male misogynists view them, their is little hope. Women rarely succeed in teaching men how to love and treat women because it is always from a females perspective. Men raised in such a way are less misogynistic but usually are spoiled and practice forms of mental crulety or have responsibilty issues. Its a catch 22, but I and my 3 brothers learned how to treat a black woman from observing how our father dealt with our mother, with respect and love, but always as a man who knows that he needs his woman to make his life whole.
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