Lately I been really wondering which sorority I wish to pledge, if of course I get a bid. Well anyway, here's the situation.
I'm stuck between two sororities ABC and XYZ (we only have 5 main sororities). ABC has one of my best friends in it, plus I already know a good number of the girls. These girls though, are the down-to-earth kind of girls in which can be (except for a small number of them) intimidated by other people (they have told me). But there is a big difference comparing this to XYZ. XYZ are the party girls who are not the intimidated ones but yet the strong girls who ABC is intimidated of. I know a couple girls here.

The main point to my problem is which one do I want to be in. ABC I know a whole bunch of girls-that are really cool and all, but I feel as if I don't want to be with girls that are not so confident and are scared to go places because XYZ will be there. The reason because of this, is that I have spent all my life making myself stronger in the sense I don't care what others think of me. I want a bunch of girls to make me stronger, help me as well as having sisterhood. I feel XYZ will help me grow---be a WOMAN!! what should I do> someone help!?