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I moved around frequently and it seemed to be hit or miss with liking a place or MISSING a place. I've lived here for 22 years and every time we travel, I wonder and silently wish I could live somewhere else. I like change. I've never been to the reunions of the HS I gradated from, but kept my ties and go to the reunions of the HS I WOULD have graduated from if I hadn't moved. It just sounds like you haven't put down any roots yet.
That will come in time, but it isn't the easiest thing in the world to do. There are many people who for short periods of time were "important" in my life. Today, I can barely remember their names much less their faces. I'm sure it's mutual.
It's like that Niel Young phrase-"It doesn't mean that much to me, to mean that much to you."
When you find people that you share lifestyle, philosophy and interests with, then you will connect on a deeper level. Till then, people may move in and out of your life with only momentary impact. That isn't bad, it's just a differet way that may be foreign to others. Some people have the ability to collect friends like books and that is a gift. Yet it's just as comforting to have those true great novels that you read over and over, each time gaining new insight. Florida may be just the place for you to discover new and deep connections.
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