Married in a sorority if already an active?

[DubaiSis]

I'll tell you the only thing more stressful than the first year of marriage is the last year of marriage. If you really must get married before you graduate from college then I would say all of your other priorities have to go way down the list, and that's not just the sorority. Stick with your plan if you feel you must but realize parts of your life will suffer. I'll guarantee it.

I would get extensive counseling before the wedding to hammer out division of labor, your social calendars, mutual and exclusive obligations, etc. It can all be fine as long as you both understand that you probably won't see much of each other until you graduate. And you maintaining "wifely duties" like dinner and laundry for both of you isn't gonna happen.