^^^ I qfp'ed her post about what happened during informal her freshman year. She didn't get a bid from the sorority her friends wanted that she didn't want. It's the 2nd QFP in my post (see #11 in this thread).
Frankly I think she should go through formal, and try for the colony. That will put an end to all of this longing.
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