Understanding Spring Rush

[aryastark1234]

So, if anyone could answer this, then I would really appreciate it.

I know that sororities can't share why they chose to reject a girl, but if someone could give me some of the basic reasoning that is used, I would really appreciate it. I really just want an honest, no bs answer to why I was rejected.

So I just went through Spring Rush. At my school (I don't know if all schools are like this), the only houses that do Spring Rush are those who couldn't fulfill their quotas. There were two houses that needed girls. One of them, the one I worked really hard to get into, went to all of their events, really made an effort to talk to the girls - rejected me. They took most of the girls who came, but they didn't take me. The other one took me, but they literally only met me once before and I know they did it to improve their numbers. I'm choosing to see this as an opportunity for future possibilities rather than what some people might see it as. But I still have two questions.

First Question: Why would a house that I'm pretty sure took the majority of girls that rushed it because they needed numbers not want me? Was I so bad that they felt the need to reject me? I thought I made a good impression and I was really excited to be there. Now I'm really hurting.

Second Question: what should I do in my current sorority?

I don't know what exactly it is that I did that made the other sorority reject me and I'm honestly really afraid of making this house feel the same way. What should I do? I'm honestly just relieved any house took me and I'm really afraid of doing something that makes this house not want me, like the other one did.

I will be so thankful for any and all advice.