Daughter decided to drop out of recruitment - need advice

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Originally Posted by lauren10

Thank you. She does know two of the women in the chapter - is it appropriate to say that she just felt she needed to get settled in first before rushing and that she is really interested in joining their sorority in the spring? Or is that being too presumptuous.

The campus is in the North, if that helps. No one gets recs or anything like that.

I think it would be fine to share that with the sisters that she felt overwhelmed by the process. Transferring from a smaller school to a larger school can be overwhelming. One way to make a large campus feel smaller is to go Greek. I wish her the best of luck and hopes she gets a chance to join a sisterhood--while keeping an open mind.