Not wanting to join a specific chapter =/= thinking you're too good for said chapter.
I really wish people would quit using that as a definitive statement.
There are plenty of reasons to not feel comfortable in a group.
This. Completely.
HOWEVER, OP, ya pays yer money and ya takes yer chances. My family is constantly reminding young folks we know that choices have consequences.
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