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Originally Posted by Hartofsec
I didn't make that claim -- you make the claim that I knew something about girls who don't come from the "right background:"
And I did, actually.
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Okay, I think you and I are in agreement that you can't gauge how many AA women are "interested" in rushing based on how many sign up, because there will be a significant number of women who don't want to the be tokenized, who don't want the media attention, etc.
My point is that it goes even beyond that. Even before all the controversy happened, if an AA woman thought "man, NPC sororities look cool, I wanna do that!" and then spent a few minutes online finding out she needs recs, personal connections, etc., how likely is she to continue with the process knowing she doesn't have any of these things?
I have heard PNM's told time and time again on this board that they have to be able to get recs, because they can ask teachers and people at church and so on. The thing is, for AA women living in AA communities, that just is NOT true.