The "coffee date rec"

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by DaffyKD

I have also been VERY bothered by the fact that I gave up my time to help them get the necessary rec but they don't let me know the outcome of their recruitment, never write a thank you note and act like we are obligated to do this for them. DaffyKD

I am pretty sure that DaffyKD meant that the PNM never bothers to write a thank you note, never bothers to let her know where or if she pledges and generally acts like WE (alumnae) are obligated to help them. This is simple, common courtesy which is sadly lacking in many young people... certainly not all, but many of them.

I find that the girls who wear pearls tend to observe social graces better than the ones with nose rings