Indecisive About Dropping

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I'm a sophomore at a really big southern school where Greek life is huge. I missed registration for rush when I was a freshmen, and my entire freshmen year I saw all of the fun that my friends who were in Greek life were having and it made me that much more excited to rush.

So this year, sophomore year, I rushed and everyone told me that everything happens for a reason and you'll get a bid from the sorority where you truly belong. I ended up getting a bid from a sorority that I liked during rush, but it was one of the only sororities that I didn't already know someone in.

My pledge class is over 100 girls and mainly freshmen. They're somewhat cliquey too. I've met a lot of nice girls in my sorority, but I just haven't found a close group of friends or anyone I feel super comfortable with yet. I've met a couple of other sophomore girls in my pledge class, but all of them had friends in the sorority previous to joining. All the older girls that I've talked to told me that you really start making friends spring semester, but we're already almost halfway through spring semester and I'm worried that I still will be the outsider by the end of the semester.

I really don't want to drop because I really was looking forward to being apart of a sorority and having sisters, but I'm nervous I'm wasting time and money to continue to feel as though I don't fit in.

Suggestions or advice???