Need advice about dropping my sorority..

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Originally Posted by 33girl

I'll say what I've said before about being in a chapter with "negative" ratings. Be in everyone's face about the fact that you are an ABC and ABC is the best mother bleeping sorority that ever existed and if they don't agree then ain't nobody got time for that. If you just hang your head and never wear letters and complain about being in your sorority, you are letting others define you.

I also found that I had/have a much easier time making friends with people in other sororities and the Greek community in general when I have this attitude. No one in PQR is going to want to be friends with you when your every move/emotion/action/body language states how envious you are of her and how much you wish you were a PQR instead of an ABC. Plus, when you get to know that PQR, you may realize that as much as you love and adore her as a friend...you weren't meant to be her sister. You were meant to have the sisters you already have.

"Go confidently."