UW is kind of a special snowflake in that the pledges move into the chapter house immediately.
But seriously, try to understand that you are meeting a very small fraction of the entire chapter, and the girls you're meeting may or may not be really good at rush conversation. This does NOT mean that she isn't a perfectly lovely conversationalist, friend and sister in real life. I know "trust the process" sounds awfully cliche when it's your life we're talking about. But think back to the last time you had a potential friend 1-put on a skit for you 2-sit on the floor in front of you while you sit in a chair to have a chat and 3-get to know you like lifelong friends in 3 or 4 minute increments. Never? Don't expect so much of these girls. Trust the system and join the sorority that you're offered at the end. You'll be happy if you allow yourself to be.
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