Look, for a lot of women, this is their first big rejection. It's okay for them to feel lots of things, many terrible. It's okay for them to say things, to their rho chis or their moms, or even their close friends. I'm not going to fault any of that.
The thing is, after the feelings, after the venting, THEN, it's time to put on your big girl pants and give the other chapters a shot.