How would you handling seeing people who don't like you while rushing

[33girl]

If you're going to be a junior in college and you haven't made your mark enough/feel comfortable enough there to kind of laugh about the jackasses from high school, I hate to say it, but rush probably isn't going to go well for you.

A girl from my HS who was a couple years younger than me rushed and pledged (another sorority, not mine) and one day was shit-talking me for being geeky in HS to a mutual friend in a fraternity. He read her the riot act. Considering his nickname was "Snake" and he could be damn scary when he wanted to be, she learned her lesson.

Have you had any interaction with the girls from your high school at all in the past two years? If it's a small school, I kind of don't get how you haven't run into them to know whether or not they're Greek...and if it's a big school, it's not going to be "noncompetitive" and they're not going to "take lots of juniors and seniors."