Cold Approaches

[thetalady]

Start with a little "foreplay" with a couple of specific sororities, not the entire Panhellenic community.

Send them flowers to congratulate them on their new pledge class. Learn to serenade and go sing to them at dinner one night as your "introduction" to the girls. Taking cookies is also a great idea... all sorority girls love cookies! Then call & chat with the social chair.

Instead of a swap, maybe invite them to cooperate in an easy, afternoon service project? Less pressure than a swap, but still allows some social interaction between the groups. Think more creatively than just a swap...