Dear PNMs who dropped out or who did not get a bid.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by BluPhire

I've seen (not literally, never been invited but the NPHC greek world is small) of girls coming to teas inappropriately, Girls that feel that because they have the grades they are shoo ins, and girls that had in their heart for so long they pretty much feel they are greek, they just need it to be official.

I've witnessed first hand where a girl was rejected from XYZ sorority and her mother being a member of XYZ sorority made it her mission to get that chapter suspended.

pet peeve/

While there is technically no age minimum as long as a college aspirant fits the criteria, our aspirants and applicants are women (or young women) and not girls. Just like NPHC fraternity aspirants and applicants are men (or young men) and not boys. Generally, you all would probably be hesitant to refer to them as boys in such a context.

/pet peeve