I know that this kind of thread is pretty common and I'm sorry if it's a repeat, but I'm starting to get really nervous for rush next year. I'm going to be at an SEC school that is known for how competitive its greek life is, and being from a city where greek life is basically nonexistent, I have NO idea what to expect. I have so many questions and I was wondering if you lovely ladies could help!
1. My mom was president of her chapter in college, and I'm not sure if it would be better to have one of her sisters write my rec for that house because it might come off weird that my mom is writing my rec for me.
2. What kinds of clothes should I be looking for? I know the standards (white dress, black dress, heels to match), but rush where I live is a jeans and t-shirt kind of ordeal. I know that is TOTALLY not the case where I'm going.
3. Is being from out of state really going to impact my chances that much? Some of the threads I was reading earlier made it sound like girls from out of state are pretty much ignored.
Thank you so much for your help!