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Originally Posted by lucgreek
If you're on a campus where 'tiers' are definitely in play and that's where you want to be, getting a bid to a top 'tier' group will be hard. Probably even harder since you were pledging a group previously and decided to drop them (for some people you'll always have the stigma of the previous group attached).
Additionally, if you weren't given a bid by 'top tier' groups when you first rushed, what makes you think they'll consider you this time? Especially if the group you pledged was 'bottom tier.'
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I signed up for "formal spring rush" and got a call to come check out a party one night. I went over on a Friday night, hung out, and got asked back Saturday. Saturday I left and then got a call to come up Sunday and got a bid. The fraternity I previous pledged was the only place I even went and met the guys, even though I got phone calls from a bunch of others. Just sort of got caught up in the moment and went with it. It was just a stupid reaction on my part.